Where do you live?

Mon, Oct 20, 2008 Posted By:Eric Friedman

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Where do you live?

Its an interesting question and probably not one that you think to answer in a different way other than thinking about your home address. What I want to know is where you experience life. Is it at the place you sleep at night? Is it at work? Is it after work while you work on your side project that you hope will one day turn into something you can do full time? Is it at the gym where you are getting out some aggression? Is it every morning on your drive to work where you can experience some brainstorming time to yourself? Is it in those moments before a project begins where you believe anything is possible?

The recent events in the world economy have gotten many people thinking about their current situation and what they are doing with their lives. Whether you are about to graduate from college, been in a job for a few years, or on a career path – people are talking about what they are going to do next.

This got me to thinking about the question of where people really live. Discussing what happens next makes people reflect on the path they have chosen and more times than not, people discuss their jobs. I always try to chime in and ask “what would you want to be doing instead of your job” and the answers I get back always surprise me. I think I have only gotten the answer of “nothing, this is what I want to be doing” once or twice so far.

I recognized early on in my own career that some people want to feel safe and get a paycheck every 2 weeks without challenging the status quo. I also recognized that these people had convictions about things that made them seem to come alive when they talked about them. Why not take that passion and conviction and try to spend more time on it?

If the secret of success is creating meaning and working on something you love – than isn’t success measured by doing something you love everyday? If yes, than the means to survive will follow.

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  • alyssa09
    u there Eric?
  • alyssa09
    wanna get together?
  • yvesdidim
    Nice angle.
    Guess everyone would rather go fishing than to go to work everyday. But becomming a fishermen and going out to fish day after day, would make the fishing a boaring job.
    We all want to have fun, but I am sure the clown only sees his job as a job.
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  • Before I started my own business, I would have probably answered this question negatively - as in, I live at the office since I don't have time to spend with my family and friends.

    Now though, although there can be times when I'm wondering if the client projects will run out before new ones come on board, I'm very happy with where I am in life. I have a wonderful wife that supports me unequivocally in everything I do; I have great friends that I can actually spend time with; and best of all (and something I'm eternally grateful for) I can choose who I work for.

    Not having to do something I disagree with from an ethical standpoint has really made me feel so much better in myself. If anyone is ever thinking of taking the leap into their own business, I cannot recommend it enough, tough times and all.
  • Great post. I really like your perspective on living life. It really is something that I have never even thought about to a simple question like that. Especially in an unstable economic situation that we are experiencing as a country, it is really hard for people to spend more time on leisure activities that they love. Myself, I am balancing school, two internships, and another job. Basically I am like many others and want to have hte safety of paychecks and money. I think that my leisure love activities may have to wait until I am in a more financially stable situation.
  • Hopefully your leisure and love activities will turn into something you can make a living with. Especially in today's times enjoying what you do is most important.
  • Agreed. It's the matching of passion and career that is the challenging aspect of your argument. The power of a paycheck can often steer you off your road to "living."
  • Thanks Eric I really enjoyed this piece. I think if you aren't always "living" then you need to reconsider what you're doing. Life is short and fleeting, there is not a single moment to waste.
  • Right. If you discover you ARE wasting a moment - make a change.
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